4 Ways to Spice Up your Sex Life

3 ways to add romance to your sex life

It is important in a relationship to keep your sex life fresh. There are several ways to spice up your sex life with little sexual games. Below we give you a couple of ideas on how to keep your romance alive.

  1. Role play – Turn the tables by pretending to be different people. This will spice up the bedroom with variety. Are you a damsel in distress or a feisty captor?
  2. Leave notes – Leaving little notes around the house with your intentions, is a great way to spice up the bedroom. It’s even better if you do it when no one is home, letting the anticipation build until you meet.
  3. Sexy lingerie – Putting on some sexy lingerie may be just what your bedroom needs! Try going lingerie shopping together to get the excitement going, then finish up at home.
  4. Try different positions – Everyone likes a little variety. Try buying a book on sexual positions and trying a new one on a certain night every week. And during the week discuss which one you wish to try with your partner to build the intrigue.

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The Many Faces of Fetish

What Is A Fetish?

Originally, a fetish was an object believed to have magical powers or a talisman for good luck.  This object would be worn or carried by the person in possession of it.

Today’s definition is more commonly the fixation  on an object or body part for sexual gratification.

The fetish can be an article of clothing like a bra, skirt or shoe. For others it can be a body part like a foot, neck or hair.  Sometimes, it’s the body type and not the body part like a tall, short or fat person.

Fabrics like rubber, leather or lace are fairly common.

An inanimate object like a balloon, snow or an automobile may provide arousal for other individuals.

Interestingly, men have fetishes more often than women.

Fetishes Both Common and Rare

Below are some examples of fetishes and their less common names:

Looners and Poppers, people who are aroused by balloons, whether surrounded by them, popping them or enclosing themselves in large ones.

Basophilia, getting turned on by someone’s nose.

Odaxelagnia, the art of biting or getting bitten.

Erotic asphyxiation, also known as breath control play, oxygen deprivation by strangling or suffocating to heighten sex before losing consciousness.

Martymachlia, having someone or several people watching while you’re having sex, often done in public places.

Latronudia, exposing yourself to a doctor or nurse.

Furries, people who enjoy dressing and acting like animals.

Autonepiophilia, the turn on of being treated as a baby, diapers, pacifier and crib included.

Objectophilia being sexually aroused by an inanimate object like a car, boulder, or building and masturbating with the object.

Necrophilia, a sexual attraction to corpses.

Podophilia commonly referred to as a foot fetish.  People aroused by feet, and the smell of feet.

Dacryphilia, being turned on when someone cries.

Menophilia, getting excited by menstrual blood.

Masochism, arousal to physical and psychological pain.

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Spartacus Metal Gates of Hell

The Gates of Hell Are Waiting For You

The Gates of Hell is a male chastity device that makes erections deliciously uncomfortable for the wearer.  The Spartacus Metal Gates of Hell come in your choice of 5 metal rings or 7 metal rings.

The welded nickel-plated steel rings are held together by a black leather strap with metal rivets separating each ring.  The largest metal ring, which is 2 inches in circumference,  goes over the balls and cock, while the cock alone goes into the other rings.  The remaining rings vary in size from 1.75 inches with the smallest ring measuring 1.25 inches.

It is easier to slip the Gates over a penis before it is erect.

The 7 ring version has one-2 inch ring followed by two-1.75 inch rings, three-1.50 inch rings and lastly a 1.25 inch ring.  The length of the 7 ring Gates of Hell is 5 inches.

The 5 ring version has one-2 inch ring followed by three 1.50 inch rings and one-1.25 inch ring.  The length of the 5 ring version is 4.50 inches.

On sale for $18.95, regularly $26.95

Learn the pleasure of Cock and Ball Torture during bdsm play with the Metal Gates of Hell.

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How Can Torture Be Pleasurable?

Restricting the penis makes ejaculation difficult; keeping the penis in a state of pleasure with no release.  The rings limit how big the penis can grow.

The look of a penis surrounded by all the rings can be visually stimulating.  It is a naughty addition to your bdsm gear.

Oral Sex while wearing the Gates of Hell can create a whole new level of pleasure.

The Starting Gate

Gates of Hell are for those experienced with CBT bondage play.  If you are a newcomer and want to try one, it is recommended that you begin with a rubber one.  Gates of Hell come equipped with metal or rubber rings.  The rubber rings are softer.  The Gates can have anywhere from 2 to 7 rings on them.  Some varieties are interchangeable and have snaps instead of rivets, so you can change the size or color of the rings.

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Pussy Pump Accessory Stimulate your Labia

The Pussy Pump Accessory Gives Lip Service A New Name

The Pussy Pump Accessory allows the user to enlarge their lady parts.  This can be very arousing as the sensitivity is increased around the labia and vaginal opening.

The pump cup is made industrial strength crystal clear acrylic. The cup accessory is tapered toward the top to match the natural curve of the female anatomy.  It measures 3 inches wide by 4 inches long.  The pussy pump accessory contains a state-of-the-art air valve which allows for a quick and easy disconnection from the pump while maintaining pressure within the cylinder.  No gaskets are required.

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On sale for $39.95, regularly $52.95

Don’t Forget The Pump!

In order to use the Pussy Pump Accessory you will need a pump.  A pump is a hand-held device with a squeeze grip and tubing.  When the grip is squeezed it sucks air out of the cup and up the tubing.  This creates a seal around the vagina and each subsequent pump tugs at the vagina. causing the blood vessels to expand and the vagina to become enlarged.

There are many types of pumps from basic plastic to brass.  Whichever,  hand-held pump you choose will get you on the way to bigger and better body parts. All of the Size Matters pumps will work with all their attachments.

Plump It Up

Pumping of the genitals is done to increase both size and sensitivity.  This is done by creating a vacuum seal.  The suction on the erogenous zone increases blood flow, causing enlargement and pleasurable sensitivity.  For some, the sight of these larger than life lips, penises and breasts is very arousing.

 Size Matters, the makers the Pussy Pump Accessory,  specializes in products that allow the user to enlarge and sensitize erogenous zones beyond their normal limits.  Men and women enjoy their size matters enlargement gear whether it is a breast, nipple, clitoris or penis, Size Matters has what you need.
When using any pumping gear, it is recommended that you use a little lubricant  to help seal the accessory to the skin.  Also, the area around where you are pumping should be shaved to give a good seal against the skin.  Air tends to seep in around the hairs when pumping.
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Sportsheets Five Piece Hog Tie And Cuff Set

A timeless bondage classic, the Sportseets Five Piece Hog Tie And Cuff Set, creates quick and easy ways to restrain your partner.  The bondage set includes 4 adjustable black cuffs with velcro closures.  The cuffs are a thin, soft, faux fur, and feature a nylon strip the nickel-free metal hardware is attached to.  The sturdy hog tie features a heavy duty nickel-free metal O-ring.  The cuffs clip onto the 4 smaller rings of the hog tie.  You can also clip the cuffs together without using the hog tie to create even more quick and easy sexual positions to try.

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On sale for: $26.95, regularly $34.95

When you tie your partner in any of the hog tie positions, you limit their ability to move.  This leaves them vulnerable to your whims.  You can effectively expose the front or backside of your play thing.  This is great for teasing with a massage, blindfold or dildo.

Unlike a spread eagle position, the hog tie keeps arms and legs close to the body.  It can be very arousing to be the play thing, never knowing what will happen next, and being in no position to stop it.

It is important to note if you are hog tying your partner on their stomach, do so on a hard surface like the floor.  On a bed or a surface that has give, their face may get buried in the fabric making breathing difficult.

Keep The Spark Igniting  Flames Of Desire

Sportsheets has been keeping couples connected for over 20 years through products like the Five Piece Hog Tie And Cuff Set.  Explore new positions together using Sportsheets’ soft bondage and sexual positioning accessories.  Their bondage restraints are designed for durability and designed for people who wish to explore beginner bondage.

A unique feature on Sportsheets‘ packaging are erotic stories to inspire your own.  Each product has its own sexy storyline.

The Bondage Fetish Store carries the entire line of Sportsheets products which includes bondage bed sheets, strap-ons, spreader bars, door jam cuffs, tethers, cuffs, sex swings, floggers and blindfolds.

 

Electro Sex Penis Sheath

The Rimba electro sex penis sheath is used for prolonging erections, restraint and discipline.  This black leather lace up sheath design has quality stitched edges.  Imagine your penis wrapped up in a soft leather sheath and then slowly the electro power starts to climb from low to high.  The electro sex penis tube is fitted with a 2.5 millimeter male plug.  Adaptors are available at the Bondage Fetish Store to make the penis sheath compatible with your power box.  The lacing can be loosened or tightened to accommodate most girths.  Men with heart problems should not use electro sex products.

On sale for: $42.95, regularly $65.95

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What Is A Penis Sheath?

A penis sheath, also known as penis tube is a sex toy that is used in CBT play.  It keeps the penis in an erect position by compressing the cock’s blood vessels.  A sheath, like the Electro Sex Penis Sheath, is longer than a standard cock ring.  Another product, also known as a penis sheath, is used to add length and girth to a penis, or to aide with erectile dysfunction.  Be sure to read the product’s description carefully to ensure you are getting the type of sheath you want.

What Is Electro Sex?

Electro Sex is the application of electrical impulses to the genitals for sexual stimulation. Electro Sex can be gentle and erotic or intense and painful.  The level of stimulation is up to the user.  Toys like the Electro Sex Penis Sheath work in conjunction with a power box.

The Bondage Fetish Store is the place for all your electro sex needs.  We sell electro sex toys, power boxes, stim pads, gels and more.

We also stock both types of penis sheaths and a variety of cock rings sure to satisfy you and your partner.

Rimba was founded in The Netherlands in 1971.   Rimba is a leading manufacturer of electro sex toys,  leather, lingerie and rubber fetish ware.

Companion Connector By Size Matters

The Companion Connector Is Twice As Nice

The Companion Connector allows you to hook 2 cylinders to the same pump.  This is a great accessory to use with hand pumps and pump cylinders.  It works with penis cylinders, nipple cylinders, vaginal pump cups, breast pump cups and clitoral cylinders.

The Companion Connector  keeps equal pressure in both cylinders. Enlarge and stimulate two of your erogenous zones at the same time, or share a line with a special friend.

The Pump Connection Tube is 9.5 inches long and the Cylinder Connection Tubes are each 24 inches long.

If you decide to use the device by yourself, you can attach one cylinder to each nipple, or  get creative by applying a cylinder to the clitoris and another to the vagina, or one to a nipple and one to the penis.  Of course, the most fun is to pump and plump with your partner.  The possibilities are endless.

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Pump It Up

Pumping of the genitals is done to increase both size and sensitivity.  This is done by creating a vacuum seal.  The suction on the erogenous zone increases blood flow, causing enlargement and pleasurable sensitivity.  For some, the sight of these larger than life lips, penises and breasts is very arousing.

In men, an added benefit is aiding with erectile dysfunction.  There is also an added benefit for women.  Clitoral pumping can help with anorgasmia, the inability to achieve an orgasm.  Often, physicians will recommend that their patients try a pumping device to aid in these conditions.

In addition to the Companion Connector, the Bondage Fetish Store sells a variety of hand-held pumps and cylinders for the beginner and advanced user.

Size Matters, who manufactures the Companion Connector,  offers products that allow users to enlarge and sensitize erogenous zones beyond their normal limits.   Size Matters has your enlargement needs covered.

Beaded Cat O Nine Tails by Fetish Fantasy

The Beaded Cat O Nine Tails features a molded plastic handle with a round bead design for an easy grip.  The black leather flogger has a handy strap for hanging on your wrist or a hook. There are 22 tresses that are 8 inches long.  The flogger’s length is 18 inches from handle to tress tips.

On sale for: $8.95, regularly $12.95

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The Beaded Cat O Nine Tails Doesn’t Look Like A Cat O Nine Tails

Though, The Beaded Cat O Nine Tails is a unique and fun flogger for your collection, a traditional Cat O’ Nine Tails would have knots at the end of each tress.  The intention was to inflict maximum pain.  As the name implies, it has exactly nine tresses.

Fetish Fantasy’s Beaded Cat O Nine Tails is for the softer side of bondage.  It can be playful or deliver a heavy slap, depending on your level of desire.

What Is The Difference Between A Flogger And A Whip?

Glad you asked.  The difference between floggers and whips is easy.  Floggers have multiple tresses, so the Beaded Cat O Nine Tails is definitely a flogger.

Floggers travel outside the bedroom and are often seen at medieval and pirate festivals, as part of the costuming.

Whips are the flogger’s longer cousin.   The end of the whip does not branch off into tresses, but ends in a single tail.  There are a few exceptions, like a split tailed whip, but as the name implies it came from a single tail.

The Bondage Fetish Store sells whips, floggers, paddles and slappers in a variety of styles and colors.  Find just what you are looking for in leather, suede, vinyl, rubber, plastic or wood.

Fetish Fantasy is a leader in affordable beginner’s bondage products and sex toys.  Fetish Fantasy was even featured in all seven seasons of popular television show,  Sons of Anarchy.

Zip Drive Black Vinyl Corset

Look sleek and sexy the next time you go out in the Zip Drive black vinyl corset. This shiny black fetish corset features a front zipper which contrasts the black vinyl. Only you can decide how much to reveal of your cleavage. The zipper also comes in handy if you are dressing yourself. You can lace-up the back, until it fits snuggly and use the zipper after that. The vinyl corset features boning to help you maintain good posture and give you an hour glass shape.

There are 4 detachable garters that are fully adjustable for length.  One end attaches to the corset and the other end has grips to hold your favorite thigh high stockings up.  If you are wearing the corset with pants, leave the garters off.

This sexy vinyl corset from Elegant Moments is available in cup sizes 32, 34, 36, 38, 40, 42 and 44.  You can adjust the width of the Black Vinyl Corset by loosening or tightening the laces on the back.

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What Is A Corset, Exactly?

A corset, like the Black Vinyl Corset, is a type of woman’s top that slims and shapes the body through the use of boning and laces.  The lacing pushes excess fat inwards and up, which helps to lift and exaggerate the bust line and accentuate all the curves.  Because the boning is slightly stiff, the corset also helps the wearer keep her posture. Corsets were made popular during the Victorian Era.

What Is Boning and Why Is It In  The Vinyl Corset?

Boning refers to thin strips of plastic or metal that are sewn into casings fitted into the fabric.  The casings act the same way pillowcases hold pillows. These stiffening strips are used to support the vinyl corset and stabilize it.  The boning also helps the corset to hold its shape and give you an hour glass shape or an wasp look.

The Bondage Fetish Store carries a wide selection of vinyl corsets to add to your fetish clothing.

Electro Sex Vaginal Dildo By Rimba

Electro Sex Vaginal Dildo Puts Mastrubation Under Contract

The Rimba Electro Sex Vaginal Dildo creates an electrical current which causes the muscles inside the vagina to contract for a unique type of stimulation. This is 6.5 inches long dildo with a circumference of 1.38 inches weighs about a pound.

Just plug the electro sex vaginal dildo in to your favorite power box and you are ready for a very pleasurable experience or a very nasty torture session depending on the amplitude.  You can also use this aluminum dildo in temperature play.

On sale for $89.95, regularly $139.95

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How To Care For Your Electo Sex Vaginal Dildo

It is recommended that aluminum electro sex toys are cleaned with warm soapy water or rubbing alcohol immediately after use.

This product is not recommended for those who have a heart condition or are pregnant.

Don’t Forget The Power Box!

Most Electro Sex Toys require a separate power box or tens unit for stimulation.   We sell power boxes from 2 to 10 channels. Each channel is one circuit and controls how many devices you can run at once depending on whether is it a dual contact device or single contact device.   A single contact device needs another device to complete the circuit. Some boxes allow you to control the wave length and frequency in addition to the intensity.

 Many Power Boxes or tens units need adapters. If you are unsure if an Electro Sex toy will work with your box, our knowledgable staff at the Bondage Fetish Store is here to help.

The Bondage Fetish Store has a variety of Power Boxes by manufacturers such as Rimba, Zeus, Mystim and PES.

Rimba has been manufacturing sex toys for more than 35 years.  Based in the Netherlands, Rimba is the leading supplier of adult products.  The Bondage Fetish Store carries their complete line of Electro Sex Toys, leather hoods, blindfolds, paddles, whips and riding crops.