Bondage Gear for Beginners

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Tips for first timers to enjoy bondage gear

Bondage – the idea of finding pleasure in restriction – is one of the most popular ways to spice up a sex life.  It can be exciting for newcomers. How do you begin to explore this kinky side?

Start Slowly

Take time and move through the gears. It encourages the controlled partner. Cuffs and blindfolds are perfect tools for beginning tantalization.

Trust your Partner

Whether you’re the slave or the master, trusting your companion at all times makes bondage work. How else can you expect to enjoy bondage restraint immobilization?

Backup Plan

You’ve heard of safe words. They might not be necessary for starters, however having an extra key to the cuffs is smart – just in case. You just might avoid awkward visits from a locksmith.

The goal is pleasure. Have fun and you’ll be using sex swings and dungeons in no time. We, at the Bondage Fetish Store, have all tools you need to get started.

Visit our website and take a look!

Product Review-Spartacus Single Strand Beaded Tweezer Clamps

nspf-400From My Erotic Closet:

Why should ears have all the fun? I really liked the Spartacus Single Strand Beaded Tweezer Clamps (NSPF-400) as soon as I saw them. They are made with glass beads which play beautifully in the light. I swear I am part magpie, because I am drawn to all things sparkly. I had never seen nipple clamps that had a full beaded chain before, so I had to have them. They were very light, which worked for me. I am all about the pleasure and not into the pain. I was torn between the pink and the red, so I ended up getting both. They have alternating colored beads with an occasional opally looking clear one. There are 3 larger drop down beads-one at the center and one at either end where the clamps attach to the chain. My lover was so turned on, that I think I will end up getting the purple ones, too, now that they are on sale.

These beautiful clamps are made by Spartacus Leather and can be found at the Bondage Fetish Store.

Fetish LingerieFetish Lingerie

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What are some famous lingerie fueled, fetish fantasies?

Sex is an amazing experience. Add costumes and role playing into the mix and it becomes something much more exciting and remarkable.

It’s no secret, couples role play. Here are the steamiest situations.

 

Repairman

Have the “repairman” arrive to fix the cable, the plumbing, or the electricity. When you answer the door in a nasty little piece of erotic clothing, he’ll realize what he’s really there to work on – you.

Doctor and Patient

“You don’t look so good, why don’t you lie down,” or so you tell her. Check on her with a doctor’s robe and shifty hands, inspecting every inch of her body. Then give her some medicine.

Stripper

Male or female, doesn’t matter. Make sure the “client” stays put as you seductively dance, removing your thigh high boots and leather clothing. If only you could go home with him or her…

If you’re looking to ignite your sex life with role play, look no further than the Bondage Fetish Store for everything you need.

Visit our website and check out our selection of sexy fetish lingerie and wild adult toys.

Bondage Fetish Store is now an authorized Sportsheets dealer.

Sportsheets Keeping couples together

The Bondage Fetish Store is now an authorized Sportsheets dealer. We carry their complete line of sex toys and beginner bondage gear.

Sportsheets was founded in 1993 by Tom Stewart. He was inspired by David Letterman jumping off a trampoline  onto a velcro wall. That gave him the idea to make velcro bondage restraints. The idea soon took off because they were safe and easy to use and were not scary looking to the novice.

Sportsheets has expanded into other areas of sex play including strap on dildo harnesses. They now have a couple other product lines under the sportsheets banner, including; Sex & Mischief and Sex in the Shower.

Our best selling item is the Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraints. They are light and easy to pack and travel with and can be used with any bed to restrain your lover.  The Under Bed Restraints is a great place to start to spice up your sex life.

What’s New This Week; Halloween is coming soon

Erotic Halloween CostumesThis week the Bondage Fetish Store  added the 2014 Costume  Line from Elegant Moments. There are over 40 new styles to choose from.  Many styles from last year remain like the Naughty Nurse or the French Maid, but once they run out, they may not be back in stock before Halloween.

We have also found more  new Spartacus Leather items to add to the store.  We added about 20 more items. Mostly bondage hardware but there are also several styles of riding crops,  a dildo harness, a couple dildos and some bondage restraints. The Bondage Fetish Store is an official distributor of Spartacus Leather.

Why Wouldn’t You Go Glass Dildo?

dxr-ac933 rose glass dildoWith all the dildos and vibrators out there, it is easy to fill your sex toy box with all sorts of shapes, sizes, styles and colors.  Dildo’s come in a  plastics, metals, vinyl and rubbers; all with their own set of rules for cleaning and lubrication.  For instance, don’t use silicone based products with silicone dildos or they will start to decompose. A Glass dildo may look high maintenance but they are the easiest and hardiest of the bunch.

A glass dildo is more than sex toy, it is work of art.   Combining form and function, these beauties can be displayed on your night table like Vishnu; DXR-AC933, The Thruster and The Awesome Blossom;DDJ-0292-08 as an erotic art display.  Glass dildo’s come in many unique styles and are very colorful.  The Bondage Fetish Store has many to choose from!

Don’t let their good looks fool you, though.  Each dildo or vibrator you purchase is money well spent.  With proper care,  you will never have to replace them.  They can take a few bumps along the way, but short of dropping them from a high elevation onto a hard surface are hard to break.

A glass dildo or glass vibrator will work with your favorite lubricants and toy cleaners,  No restrictions apply.  You can even use regular soap and water or pop them in the dishwasher (do not put a vibrator controller in the dishwasher).

Benefits of Glass Dildos.

Another benefit of glass is their tolerance to temperature.  You can pop them in the freezer to cool down on a hot, steamy night or put them in warm water to heat things up when you are cold.   Because they are waterproof they can join you in the bath or shower, too.

Economic, easy-going and erotic, start your glass collection, today!!!

 

What New This Week; Part 2

We added over 300 new items to the store this past Month.  This is the second installment of the highlights of the items we added. Remember to sort the products by “Newest” to see our latest selections of sex toys, bondage gear and  fetish clothing.

Men's Gothic BootsAmong the additions we  have added the “Rage” line of Gothic Motorcycle Boots for women to our footwear. Many of the new gothic styles have studs and spikes while others plain and simple. We also added the newest line of the Vanity line of shoes and boots from Pleaser. These shoes  are a single soul and have a 4 inch heel.

The Bondage Fetish Store also added several lines of sex toys.

Raging Hard on dildo. Great for use in a strap on didli harness.We added the “Raging Hard On” line from Doc Johnson.  This is a line of dildo’s, many are designed to be made for anal sex. These dildo’s  are almost all flesh colored and include double ended dildo’s,  butt plugs,  and realistic dongs. Most Doc Johnson products are  made in America.

James Dean Hog Tie for bondage beginners.

Also from Doc Johnson, we added the James Dean line.  The James Dean line is a line of bondage gear for the beginner. This brand of bondage  restraints are black and blue.  Included in the new products we added are; blindfolds, floggers and paddles,  Shackles and other restraints.  Collect the whole line for a matching set.

Peg your lover with the scandal dildo harnessFrom California Exotic Novelties, we have added the “Scandal” line of erotic bondage gear.  The line is a little more feminine than the James Dean line in Red and Black. Included in this line is wrist and ankle cuffs, blindfolds, floggers and paddles, strap-on dildo harnesses and more.

Other new items we added include a neoprene gas mask, glass dildo’s,  handcuffs, wrist and ankle shackles, anal toys, leather chastity devices , leashes and much more.

Our next upload of new products will be our 2014 line of costumes for Halloween.

Review: Bodystockings

From My Erotic Closet:  The Wonderful World of Bodystockings

Erotic Scrolling Vine Bodystocking for your sexual fantasiesIf you are tall like me, you despise having to put on a pair of nylons ’cause they never fit correctly.  The crotch is too low, the waistband too high, they puddle at the ankle; leaving you spending half the night tugging and adjusting.  Then, there is the dreaded trip to the restroom where it takes so much time to lower and raise them, all the while hoping they won’t snag, or worse-get a hole.

I much prefer bodystockings.   The full length design means when you put your arms in, the leg portion stays put.  They are crotchless, so with a g-string or thong underneath, all you have to do is pull the undies to a side and use the toilet.  No fuss, no worry.

Bodystockings come in all different patterns and colors,  The  most popular colors include  black, white,  pink, purple and red .    Some have beautiful detailing like scrolls or flowers, but there are a variety of plain,  simple ones, too.   Some bodystockings,  come in plus size for the full figured woman.

A few helpful hints: if you are tall, get the queen size when possible, it gives you a little more length, and for the nylon ones  (for any nylons in fact) put them in the freezer for a few hours before you put them on to cut down on  snags.

You can view the complete collection of bodystockings at the Bondage Fetish Store.

What’s New this week; Part 1

This month we have added about 300 new items to our website. They can be found in many different places but the easiest way to find them is to go to the new page and choose sort by newest.

Spartacus leather Masters Half mask.We have completed adding all the items from Spartacus Leather.  The Bondage Fetish Store is a proud distributor of Spartacus Leather and now have their complete line on our website.  We have added their leather hoods,  cock and ball toys, paddles, body harnesses and much more.

Elegant Moments Vinyl Lingerie from the 2014 collection

 

We also added the 2014 Elegant Moments Line of Vinyl Lingerie. Elegant Moments is one of the first fetish clothing lines of the Bondage Fetish Store.  Elegant Moments also supplies us out hosiery and lingerie mini dresses.

 

2014 Line from Allure Leather Faux Leather.Allure Lingerie has also come out with  several lines of new fetish clothing for 2014 including a faux leather line.  This line of new sexy leather clothing is sure to get peoples attention with the Faux Leather Corsets, Skirts, and Dresses.

Be sure to check back often to see all the latest updates. We have also added many other new items and will announce them in a few days.

Look for our 2014 line of costumes within 2 weeks just in time for Halloween.

3 Tips for Nipple Stimulation

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  1. Relax: Nipple stimulation works best when initiated slowly. Graze the nipple with soft, subtle strokes, building sensation methodically for maximum pleasure.
  2. Inside Out: A great tip to remember about nipple stimulation is work from the inside outwards. This track helps pleasure radiate from the nipple’s central nerve endings out toward the rest of the chest, increasing pleasurable surface area.
  3. Clamps: Would you like to step up your nipple stimulation game? Nipple clamps place increased pressure on the nipples, for a more intense sensation.

Would you like to try using nipple clamps? Bondage Fetish Store offers a fabulous selection of nipple clamps for increased pleasure.