Bondage Gear for Beginners


Tips for first timers to enjoy bondage gear

Bondage – the idea of finding pleasure in restriction – is one of the most popular ways to spice up a sex life.  It can be exciting for newcomers. How do you begin to explore this kinky side?

Start Slowly

Take time and move through the gears. It encourages the controlled partner. Cuffs and blindfolds are perfect tools for beginning tantalization.

Trust your Partner

Whether you’re the slave or the master, trusting your companion at all times makes bondage work. How else can you expect to enjoy bondage restraint immobilization?

Backup Plan

You’ve heard of safe words. They might not be necessary for starters, however having an extra key to the cuffs is smart – just in case. You just might avoid awkward visits from a locksmith.

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What are some famous lingerie fueled, fetish fantasies?

Sex is an amazing experience. Add costumes and role playing into the mix and it becomes something much more exciting and remarkable.

It’s no secret, couples role play. Here are the steamiest situations.



Have the “repairman” arrive to fix the cable, the plumbing, or the electricity. When you answer the door in a nasty little piece of erotic clothing, he’ll realize what he’s really there to work on – you.

Doctor and Patient

“You don’t look so good, why don’t you lie down,” or so you tell her. Check on her with a doctor’s robe and shifty hands, inspecting every inch of her body. Then give her some medicine.


Male or female, doesn’t matter. Make sure the “client” stays put as you seductively dance, removing your thigh high boots and leather clothing. If only you could go home with him or her…

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3 Tips for Nipple Stimulation


  1. Relax: Nipple stimulation works best when initiated slowly. Graze the nipple with soft, subtle strokes, building sensation methodically for maximum pleasure.
  2. Inside Out: A great tip to remember about nipple stimulation is work from the inside outwards. This track helps pleasure radiate from the nipple’s central nerve endings out toward the rest of the chest, increasing pleasurable surface area.
  3. Clamps: Would you like to step up your nipple stimulation game? Nipple clamps place increased pressure on the nipples, for a more intense sensation.

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Bondage Tips and Tricks for Beginners

When it comes to bondage, first things first – make sure what you’re doing is safe, sane and consensual. Next, read on for some tips and tricks to help you get started making your bondage fantasy a reality.


Safe Word

Before you begin, be sure to agree on a safe word. That way, if anything becomes too painful or too much to handle, it’s possible for the submissive to say stop in a way that’s clearly not part of the activity. If a partner decides to be gagged as well as restrained, make sure you come up with another safety signal that can be easily recognized.


Make sure ropes or cuffs are not too tight by checking circulation often and looking for areas that might be turning blue or white. Also be sure that you never restrain someone so tight they can’t breathe, and keep a pair of flat edged medical safety scissors nearby in case someone needs to be released quickly.

Beginner’s Tools

For first timers, it’s recommended that you restrain with soft material like a suit tie, a scarf or rope that won’t give you splinters. If you don’t want to start with physical bondage, you can use a blindfold to deprive one partner of a sense, sight, which will in turn enhance other senses, such as smell and touch.

Once you act on your bondage fetish, you may never go back. Really anything goes as long it’s consensual and partners respect each other’s boundaries. Once you start experimenting, you never know what you’ll discover!

Benefits of Sex


We all know sex feels good… but did you know it’s also good for you? A healthy sex life can result in many overall health and life benefits.

Boost Your Immune System

Having sex just once or twice a week can help keep your immune system in tip top shape. Sexually active people tend to take fewer sick days and a Wilkes University study found sexually active people tend to have higher levels of a certain antibody (immunoglobulin A) than those who had sex less frequently.

Stress Relief

Sex triggers the release of your body’s natural, feel good chemicals that help reduce stress and boost your mood. Plus, simply being close to your partner can help soothe anxiety.

Reduced Prostate Cancer Risk

A study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association found men who ejaculated frequently were less likely to end up with prostate cancer. You don’t even need a partner to reap this benefit!

Additionally, a healthy sex life can lead to reduced pain, improved sleep and more. At Bondage Fetish, we’re here to serve your bondage needs and desires in order to help you create a healthy sex life, so you and your partner(s) can reap all the benefits.

Bondage Techniques – How Would You Like to be Restrained?

BSDM Restraints Bondage ankle and writs restraints Bondage is the act of consensually restraining a partner for erotic, aesthetic or somatosensory stimulation. Because of the many forms and styles, bondage can be divided into different categories based on motivations.

Bondage for a Purpose – Best known as the “B” in BDSM, this form of bondage is motivated by a desire for one partner to be used for an ulterior purpose, such as making them more accessible for a spanking session.

Decorative Bondage – As the name states, this form of bondage is used when one partner is used as an aesthetic object, like what would be seen in erotic photography.

Torture Bondage ¬ Almost any form of bondage can be used as torture bondage. All that’s required is that the restrained partner is purposefully bound in an uncomfortable and/or painful position.

Film Bondage – Completely non-violent, this form on bondage requires the restrained partner be restrained for aesthetic purposes only and to be able to escape without great effort.

Meditative Bondage – Seldom used in Western culture, meditative bondage is used often in Japanese bondage practices where interest lies in restraining a partner’s spiritual situation rather than their corporal body.

Many people think of bondage as rough and tough, however that is not always the case. There are many types and techniques of bondage, including soft bondage, where one partner’s hands are restrained simply by the other partner’s hands, or even through verbal bondage alone. What matters most is that there is trust between partners and that everyone is enjoying themselves!